These are the rules :- 1) If you can't decide, the answer is NO! 2) If both options looks equal, go for the path which has short term pain and long term gain! 3) Make the choice which leaves internally equanimous!
1) If you can't decide, the answer is NO! 2) If both options looks equal, go for the path which has short term pain and long term gain! 3) Make the choice which leaves internally equanimous!
Thank you for sharing your words. Must be coming out from a lot of self-reflection and observations. I love your third piece of advice the best. Truly gem.
Taking notes.... 😊 If u have can't decide the answer is NO. if both options seem equal, Go for hard one in short term. Choose what leaves you peaceful.
Đây là các quy tắc:- 1) Nếu bạn không thể quyết định, câu trả lời là không! 2) Nếu cả hai tùy chọn trông bằng nhau, hãy đi cho con đường bị đau ngắn hạn và tăng lâu dài! 3) đưa ra lựa chọn để lại trong nội bộ
ya definetely man ,i belive this is a goldmine of useful information , these videos are worth rewatching twiice but i think for most people see a video of girl twerking multiple time times mokes more sense
If the decision is about ending a relationship, seek help with a therapist or go for couple’s therapy. Don’t base the decision on your own reasoning because a lot of it is clouded by emotions and even personality and mental health issues. Relying on your own mind might be detrimental once the dust settles.
Rule 1 is relative. There has to be a balance between short term and long term gains/hapiness..perhaps 30:70 ratio..what if one died prematurely?like steve jobbs..find small things that make you happy everyday,have carbs once in a while,take a break from gymming every now and then,applies for financial goals too..just my 2 bit:)
I have a question about the second heuristic. How is the law of compound interest applicable? A dollar today is worth more than one in the future. Good advice overall, tho.
Hey buddy, you are doing amazing work. I have recently come across to your channel. Your videos are really helpful. it would be great if you give the notes in discription also. So, will can directly copy from that.
I wish I had seen this before choosing the wrong degree... I was fighting 2 degrees in my heart, and chosen the wrong one as it was more influenced by others rather than myself
I myself regret many things in life. But I think that's part of life, most of us regret our past because we are growing up to be better and have more knowledge and more wisdom.
Not necessarily. Naval said to choose the short term pain with long term gain ie peace and comfort. It’s like comfort zone is short term gain and long term pain ie staying in an unhappy relationship for the take of keeping the peace (in the short term)
@@ultiumlabs4899 The premise that short term pain will lead to future gain is wrong. Imagine a boxer taking punches early on hoping to fire at the end may wear himself out altogether with the pain. Short term pain makes an option unattractive causing dilemma and indecisiveness w.r.t to an option offering short term gains. As per rule 1 the answer is no. One may end up choosing wrong/easy option. Indecisiveness may also be due to the interia or comfort zone. As they say life starts after comfort zone. If indeciciveness is about coming out of comfort zone and choosing short term pain is resolved by saying the answer is no means the person will avoid taking risk. But then rule 2 says choose the option with short term pain. It all depends more on how we are looking at the problem and its options. Life is definitely not that simple.
@@huntrz Yes, I have seen contradictions too but not on your point. but on this what if you choose peace of mind and stay in your comfort zone, you are making an easy choice then? as the world is continuously changing, it will cause problems if one stays in the comfort zone, Am I right?
@@bhaveshartsy7805 yes I was saying the same thing but in very short. Basically the option with short term pain will make the option of staying in the comfort zone look attractive, this will cause the person to choose the easier option of staying in the comfort zone. This contradicts the point "if you can't decide,the answer is no". Because a person will now decisively choose not to take risks and stay in the comfort zone due to probabale short term pain.
These are the rules :-
1) If you can't decide, the answer is NO!
2) If both options looks equal, go for the path which has short term pain and long term gain!
3) Make the choice which leaves internally equanimous!
Thank you for 3 rules summary
Thanks
This is the only channel on RUclips I feel worth watching. No beating around the bush.
thanks!
1) If you can't decide, the answer is NO!
2) If both options looks equal, go for the path which has short term pain and long term gain!
3) Make the choice which leaves internally equanimous!
i always can't decide
Most ppl never learn this wisdom even by their 70s, let alone learn it at such a young age like us (teenagers, and 20s)
That's because they followed the sheep and never did their own research 🤣
Don’t count us 30 somethings out. We’re with you on this one 😎
is it right approach to follow naval
Thank you for sharing your words. Must be coming out from a lot of self-reflection and observations.
I love your third piece of advice the best. Truly gem.
Taking notes.... 😊
If u have can't decide the answer is NO.
if both options seem equal, Go for hard one in short term.
Choose what leaves you peaceful.
the notes were truly helpful & unexpected.
Appreciate that :)
Man Naval is so smart and wise.
Take only those decision which you have a storng gut feeling about , only say yes when you are 'highly (almost 100%)' certain
Decision making can get emotionally tough. These thumb rules provide good guidance when in doubt. Thanks.
Thank you for posting this
these three rules are awesome. thank you naval. I should memorize it.
Đây là các quy tắc:- 1) Nếu bạn không thể quyết định, câu trả lời là không!
2) Nếu cả hai tùy chọn trông bằng nhau, hãy đi cho con đường bị đau ngắn hạn và tăng lâu dài!
3) đưa ra lựa chọn để lại trong nội bộ
Thank you naval ravikant. You helped me make a decision.
Naval is the man
Can’t believe this only has 2.5K views
ya definetely man ,i belive this is a goldmine of useful information , these videos are worth rewatching twiice
but i think for most people see a video of girl twerking multiple time times mokes more sense
Naval is cool.
Rule 1: 0:40
Rule 2: 2:30
Rule 3: 5:35
I needed to hear this . Thanks for making it
You are welcome!
Great content! Thanks for sharing your insight 🙏🏼
Thanks :)
If the decision is about ending a relationship, seek help with a therapist or go for couple’s therapy. Don’t base the decision on your own reasoning because a lot of it is clouded by emotions and even personality and mental health issues. Relying on your own mind might be detrimental once the dust settles.
Love this channel
Deep deep stuff. So useful!
Great job!
03:10 is the answer
Rule 1 is relative. There has to be a balance between short term and long term gains/hapiness..perhaps 30:70 ratio..what if one died prematurely?like steve jobbs..find small things that make you happy everyday,have carbs once in a while,take a break from gymming every now and then,applies for financial goals too..just my 2 bit:)
great video but the audio is WAY lower than other youtube vids, it was hard to understand Naval at times...
thanks for the feedback! All new videos now have this problem solved :)
@@PickingNuggets appreciate your repsonsiveness!
I have a question about the second heuristic.
How is the law of compound interest applicable?
A dollar today is worth more than one in the future.
Good advice overall, tho.
That was wise answer
Philosophical joint
Hey buddy, you are doing amazing work. I have recently come across to your channel. Your videos are really helpful.
it would be great if you give the notes in discription also. So, will can directly copy from that.
Thank you! Appreciate the feedback. You can check it now on my last video!
@@PickingNuggets Thanks 😀
I wish I had seen this before choosing the wrong degree...
I was fighting 2 degrees in my heart, and chosen the wrong one as it was more influenced by others rather than myself
I myself regret many things in life. But I think that's part of life, most of us regret our past because we are growing up to be better and have more knowledge and more wisdom.
I have a question, what if you choose peace of mind and stay in your comfort zone, you are making easy choice then ? Am I right ?
Not necessarily. Naval said to choose the short term pain with long term gain ie peace and comfort. It’s like comfort zone is short term gain and long term pain ie staying in an unhappy relationship for the take of keeping the peace (in the short term)
🙏🏻
True! I'm living a hard life, because I made the easy choices.
all the best!!
Content is good. But audio and lighting quality is horrible... Kindly take care of this next time
Thanks for the feedback !
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1 and 2 are contradictory. Short term pain is what causes indecisiveness.
can you give an example?
@@ultiumlabs4899 The premise that short term pain will lead to future gain is wrong. Imagine a boxer taking punches early on hoping to fire at the end may wear himself out altogether with the pain. Short term pain makes an option unattractive causing dilemma and indecisiveness w.r.t to an option offering short term gains. As per rule 1 the answer is no. One may end up choosing wrong/easy option. Indecisiveness may also be due to the interia or comfort zone. As they say life starts after comfort zone. If indeciciveness is about coming out of comfort zone and choosing short term pain is resolved by saying the answer is no means the person will avoid taking risk. But then rule 2 says choose the option with short term pain. It all depends more on how we are looking at the problem and its options. Life is definitely not that simple.
@@huntrz Yes, I have seen contradictions too but not on your point.
but on this
what if you choose peace of mind and stay in your comfort zone, you are making an easy choice then? as the world is continuously changing, it will cause problems if one stays in the comfort zone, Am I right?
@@bhaveshartsy7805 yes I was saying the same thing but in very short. Basically the option with short term pain will make the option of staying in the comfort zone look attractive, this will cause the person to choose the easier option of staying in the comfort zone. This contradicts the point "if you can't decide,the answer is no". Because a person will now decisively choose not to take risks and stay in the comfort zone due to probabale short term pain.
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If you can't decide the answer is No...what if fear is the reason you can't decide?
I suggest you to watch the Tim Ferriss talk on TED about his fear mapping method!
where did this steam happen?
In Periscope!
Is the volume v low or my AirPods getting old?
Old
Audio is low and the sound quality is not desirable.
Wonderful advice
Why's it so quiet?
Audio source was from social media i guess
where i get full video
Here!
ruclips.net/video/b5nNNhlIinA/видео.html&ab_channel=AlanCassinelli
Enjoy!
@@PickingNuggets thanks bro and also your summary note is a great idea
@@nukulporte489 thank you :)
Fix the lighting man
Naval looks like he smoked a joint !
The more the reasons to listen to this Man
He is High by reading loads of books I guess 🤘
People in flow state are naturally 'high'
So what?
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Volume on -400